What THE NESSIE HUNTER taught me about belief

Meeting the "Nessie Hunter" (I'll get to that in a moment!) really made me think... 

Beliefs are funny things, aren't they?

To be honest, beliefs are actually something I think about a lot.

One of the main features of my coaching is guiding my clients to question their beliefs about what is possible for them in their lives. 

We question beliefs like...

  • I am not good at this or that.

  • I will always be broke.

  • I am not worthy.

  • I am not beautiful.

  • I will always struggle.

  • I am an anxious person.

  • I'm not good enough.

  • I am not smart enough.

  • That will take too long.

  • I don't do well with people.

  • I'm not good on camera.

  • Success is for others

  • I'm too fat, too old, too *fill in the blank*

  • The list goes on and on, and on, and on!

These outdated negative beliefs are what hold people back from greatness in so many ways. The bottom line is that our beliefs create our reality. 

I had a big lesson on the power of belief a few weeks ago in Scotland when I met...


Watch the video below for the full explanation and to visit Loch Ness from the comfort (and warmth!) of your own home.  

Steve Feltham has been hunting full time for the Loch Ness Monster since 1991. 

That is 27 years!! Talk about dedication!

This guy gave up his whole entire life to live in a dinky RV right on the banks of the freezing cold Loch (see my video to see what this looks like first hand) because his belief in Nessie is so strong. 

Scotland is beautiful and so is Loch Ness, however, living in a tiny RV in this harsh environment is no walk in the park! He has to be freezing and lonely. 

Now, imagine what would be possible in your life if you had unshakable belief and faith in what you are capable of? You'd be unstoppable! 

Now let's flip it. 

What beliefs are you holding onto and putting so much faith and trust in that are actually NOT TRUE AT ALL? 

Are they keeping you stuck in a cold, harsh, lonely environment? 

What if you decided to change your mind?

What if you decided to believe the opposite?

What if you decided to make a different choice?

How would your world change?

If our beliefs create our reality, what reality are you creating?

Pretty interesting food for thought isn't it. :)

My belief in you and what you are capable of is UNSHAKABLE. 

Let's do this QUEEN!

Much Love, 



I am back in Chester, England now, but exactly one week ago today I left for Scotland to go on the most amazing adventure. 

To say Scotland is magical is a total understatement. It is an absolute dream.

We spent most of our time in the Highlands, at the very top of the country. This meant I had little to no cell service for most of the trip. 

Which gave me a lot of time to reflect.

I found myself most often reflecting upon how completely different my life is now than it was 3, 5, 10 years ago. 

Talk about a 180-degree shift!! It's actually mindblowing.

Please watch the video below to learn more about my perspective on how my life (HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT OVER HERE), bank account, business, love life, anxiety levels, and overall happiness have changed for the better... and how you can achieve this too. 

I went from being an anxiety-ridden (too scared to leave my house!), self-conscious, negative, broke, single girl who didn't think she deserved big love and would never accomplish anything to... 

Traveling the world with the love of my life, making my way through airports and train stations with complete ease, owning my own business, working from my laptop helping people live a life they truly love, giving presentations on stages to large groups and to huge companies, all with complete confidence faith and trust. 

Want to know how I did it?

  • I changed my mind about what was possible for me and what I could accomplish in my life. 

  • I changed my beliefs, my thoughts, and my self-talk from negative to positive. 

  • I invited in infinite possibilities.

  • I hired a coach. 

  • I surrounded myself with mentors and high vibe people. 

  • I gave myself permission to evolve and grow.

  • I decided enough was enough, put my foot down, and took major action to change my life. 

Was it easy? No

Was it worth it? 100% YES. 

Is this life available to everyone? I believe with all my heart, it is. 

If I can turn my life around, you can too. I believe this so much I have dedicated my life to helping others live a life they truly love, just like I have. 

Let me give you a quick pep talk Queen... 

  • You can do it.

  • You are worth it.

  • You were meant to receive greatly in all ways. 

  • You are a divine being. 

  • Your beauty is immeasurable. 

  • You were put on this earth to do great things. 

I would go on but I have a tour of a Medieval Cathedral to go on about 10 minutes. ;)
My love for you runs deep. 


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It's My Birthday But YOU Get A Gift!

Even though it is my birthday, YOU are the one who is receiving a present. :)

Watch the 5-minute video below or keep reading to find out what it is. 

To celebrate my 40th birthday I want to gift you with one FREE coaching session added onto any coaching package that I offer. 

So that means, if you attended the 6-week goddess transformation (1 free session) or if you participated in any of my Instagram Challenges (1 free session) with the addition of this 40th birthday present (1 free session) you can redeem up to 3 FREE sessions (added onto any coaching package.)

Pretty cool right?

Please watch the video for a more clear explanation. 

I love you so much and cannot wait to connect with you on a deeper level. 

In order to redeem your gift(s) PLEASE CLICK HERE to book a complimentary Soulmate Session with me. 

This will allow us 60 minutes to determine if coaching with me is a good fit for you. 

The time is now beautiful. 

It is also time for me to board my train.

Wishing so much love and many blessings! 

How to Overcome Social Anxiety

So, you know how there are some people who can walk into a room full of strangers (by themselves!) with full confidence? Able to strike up a conversation with anyone?

While others can hardly say hello to the mailman they've had for 10 years, let alone a room full of strangers.

For the latter, this uncomfortable "shyness" only gets worse in situations where they feel on display or when in group settings, like a workout class or a networking event.

For some people (like me!), this "shyness" can turn into debilitating social anxiety.

Can you believe I couldn't even leave my house at one point?

If the fear of stepping out into social situations is holding you back from doing great things in the world, please know, you are not alone. Far from it. 

The truth is, over 15 million people suffer with social anxiety in the U.S. alone, making it extremely common.

Watch the video below, or keep reading, to hear Steph's story of social anxiety and how she overcame it. 

So what is social anxiety anyway?

People with social anxiety usually experience distress when:

  • They're introduced to new people

  • They feel teased or criticized (which feels as though is happening ALL THE TIME even when it's not.)

  • They're the center of attention (I used to hate this so much!)

  • Being watched while doing something (cringe!)

  • Meeting authority figures or anyone perceived as "important"

  • Most social encounters, especially with strangers

  • Going around the room (or table) in a circle and having to say something (more cringing!)

  • Interpersonal relationships (romantic, business, and friendships can all cause discomfort)

Social anxiety is, in a very small nutshell, the fear of being negatively judged by others.

This perceived judgment (which most of the time IS NOT REAL, watch the video for more on this) leads to feelings of inadequacy, inferiority, self-consciousness, embarrassment, humiliation, and sometimes even depression.

Here's the cool part, if I have been able to heal myself of this, you can too. It took my many years to figure out how to get a handle on, it and what to do to combat it. 

Below are the 4 main strategies I used to leave social anxiety in the dust (much more on all of these in the video):

  • Practice self-love and self-worth

    • When you truly love yourself and understand how worthy you are you feel comfortable anyplace, around anyone. YOU ARE A QUEEN. 

  • Release judgments of self AND others

    • The more we judge ourselves and others, the more we feel judged. Period. 

  • Get help

    • Whether it is a therapist or a coach, it is important to get help when the going gets tough. Remember, you are not alone. 

  • Finally understand you have some important gifts to set-forth in the world

    • I truly believe that each and every one of us was brought here to earth for a very specific and divine reason. It is your job to figure out what that is and to then confidently step out into the world and let it rip! (this is my favorite thing to help women do.)

Another cool thing is that listening toPositive Affirmation Trackscan help a ton with all of these things too. 

The bottom line is.... you are supposed to feel comfortable and confident anyplace, anywhere, anytime and around anyone.

If you don't, that just means there are some things you need to take a closer look at. 

If I can do it, you can do it. yay! 

Much Love, 

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Willpower, confidence, self-worth are like batteries THIS is how you charge them up

Have you ever wondered why some days you have iron-clad willpower, Wonder Woman like confidence, and the self-worth of Oprah, while other days...

Not so much! 

Other days you feel scared, not good enough, wonder what the hell your purpose is, and like you aren't worthy of receiving greatly for your talents and skills. 

In this video, Spiritual Mindset Coach, Stephanie Matos explains the science behind willpower and 5 ways to charge your willpower, self-confidence, and self-worth batteries so you can finally succeed at anything you want in life.

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Based on the number of memes I've seen on the internet (millions!) I am guessing you have heard the saying, "Feel the fear and do it anyway." many, many times.

For years I believe this saying was 100% true.

I mean, after living with severe anxiety for over 20 years, the sheer volume of times I had to push through fear in order to do the things I knew I was meant to do like, Facebook Lives, Podcasts, public speaking, Youtube videos, putting on events and leading live guided meditations....

Meant this saying had to be true, right??

Not really.

Watch the video to learn the truth.

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I ran off the stage crying... | HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING

Have you ever been so embarrassed that you wished you could bury your head in the sand like an ostrich? Trust me, I get it!  I felt the exact same way when I was asked to speak in front of a crowd of about 400 people and....  I BOMBED.  Like ran off the stage crying, bombed. In this video I tell you what happened and how I overcame fear and now do public speaking effortlessly. xo

How To Manifest Anything Into Your Life In 3 Simple Steps

Have you ever wondered what MANIFESTING is or how the heck you do it? In this video I give you the 3 super simple steps you can use to manifest ANYTHING into your life.

Overcoming Fear | Is Your Fear Even Real?

While zip-lining in the jungle in Panama I had an epiphany about fear... for most people, the fear that holds them back from greatness isn't real. Is your fear real? Watch this video to find out more.

DIY Pinhole Camera Solar Eclipse Viewer

Here is a tutorial I just filmed to show you how to quickly and easily make a pinhole camera for safe viewing of the total solar eclipse tomorrow! All you'll need is a tape, a box, knife/box cutter, white sheet of paper, tin foil, and a pin or thumb tack. ENJOY!

How to Release Anxiety and Fear | Drum Circle Treasure Island, St Pete Beach

In this video, I get real and raw.  I explain how I woke up with paralyzing anxiety and what I did to raise my vibration and decrease my anxiety and fear. 

Come with me to The Vinoy and The Dali Museum in Downtown St. Pete, Florida

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